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807 West Chestnut Street
Rome, NY 13440
Phone: 315-337-0055
Fax: 315-337-0160
Kathleen Stevens

Kathleen A. "Kay" Stevens (Mantelli)

Tuesday, September 7th, 1943 - Thursday, March 28th, 2019
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Kathleen A. Stevens, age 75, of Rome, passed away peacefully on March 28, 2019 at the Oneida Healthcare Extended Care Facility.

She was born September 7, 1943, in Rome, a daughter of the late Ralph and Kathleen Kaier Mantelli, and graduated from Rome Free Academy. Kathleen married Joseph Vendetti on December 16, 1964; he died on January 25, 1982. She later married Anthony F. Stevens on June 21, 1986, at St. John Evangelical Lutheran Church; he died on March 7, 2015. She formerly worked in the medical offices of Dr. DiCastro and later, Dr. Goel. She was a member of St. Mary’s/St. Peter’s Parish.

Kathleen is survived by a son, Joseph Vendetti of Rome; a stepdaughter, Deborah Stevens of Columbus, OH; a sister, Marlene Schrefer, of Rome; a brother and sister in law, Robert and Barbara Mantelli of Rome; a brother and sister in law, Paul and Sue Mantelli of Rome; a sister in law, Sylvia Mantelli of Schuyler; a grandson, Hunter Tennyson; a special niece, Deborah Meade; dear friends Fran Ruane of New Jersey, Lilly DiCastro of Rome and Cheryl Desantis of Rome, as well many other nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by brothers, Ralph Mantelli, Francis (Bud) Mantelli and Bill Mantelli; a sister and brother in law, Mary and Mike Fazio; a brother in law Harry Schrefer; and a nephew, Barry Schrefer.

The funeral service will be held Thursday at 10:30 AM, at the Barry Funeral Home, 807 W. Chestnut Street. Burial will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery.

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  • Service

    Thursday, April 4th, 2019 | 10:30am
    Thursday, April 4th, 2019 10:30am
    Barry Funeral Home
    807 W. Chestnut Street
    Rome, New York
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    Father Philip A. Hearn
  • Interment

    Thursday, April 4th, 2019 | 12:00pm
    Thursday, April 4th, 2019 12:00pm
    St. Mary's Cemetery
    1106 W. Liberty Street
    Rome, NY 13440-
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The Fazio Family

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Summer 2009

The Fazio Family

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Christmas 1967

The Fazio Family

Posted at 09:47pm
Summer 1966

The Fazio Family

Posted at 09:46pm
Christmas 1964

The Fazio Family

Posted at 09:21pm
Rest in peace Aunt Kathy. I'll miss you. Great woman. Hang in there, Joe. Our love to you and the rest of the family. Having flowers sent to the funeral home 4/4 morning. - The Fazio's...Jim, Lacie, Lillie, and Ian xoxo

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